WHY DO MEN CHEAT.
SEVEN REASONS EVEN THE HAPPIEST HUSBANDS CHEAT.
infidelity is a heartbreak no one should ever have to deal, but when it happens, most couples are left with questions. But if you and your husband were happily married when he cheated these can explain how this happened.
HE IS COVERING UP INSECURITIES.
Your husband can be a great spouse. And as great he can be he might be under a lot of pressure to make sure he meets the needs of you and everyone else in the family. But deep down he could be dying silently.
Your husband can be a great spouse. And as great he can be he might be under a lot of pressure to make sure he meets the needs of you and everyone else in the family. But deep down he could be dying silently.
Does he feel like it's impossible for him to succeed as a parent? If he is under lots of pressure to keep you and everyone else in the family happy, he might not feel comfortable revealing those problems, instead of being able to talk about their
But have deeper needs that are going unfulfilled, it's the need to fulfill those deeper needs and they been unable to talk about them makes them try to get fulfilled in secrecy. ( example; by having an affair).
But have deeper needs that are going unfulfilled, it's the need to fulfill those deeper needs and they been unable to talk about them makes them try to get fulfilled in secrecy. ( example; by having an affair).
IT'S EASIER TO LOOK FOR SOMETHING NEW RATHER THAN TALK ABOUT EXPECTATIONS.
Men don't just need sex; they need emotional connection ( just like women). Unfortunately, it's normally painful for a man to tell his wife he doesn't feel appreciated. He would prefer to shove those emotional disappointment at the back of his head then deal with them later.
That later is very scary. Eventually those emotions will surface again and if he feels more appreciated from a different source, it will be hard for him to resist.
CHEATING MAKES HIM LESS VULNERABLE TO ONE PERSON.
Incas you don't know emotions play a great role more in infidelity than we all think. For some men it's very hard to express how he feels even to himself.
(See above)
(See above)
But marriage is all about being vulnerable to one person, if he can spread out his life's intimate details between two people, then he will feel less vulnerable (and dependent ) on one person.
HE DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO BALANCE LOVE WITH ROMANCE.
feeling liked, loved, and safe is a basic human need, sometimes we humans also crave for adventure and mystery. As a matter of fact balancing the two in a marriage is very hard. And there is nothing more opposite of adventure than routine, sometimes especially happily married men enjoy the comfort of reliability and love from their wife, but look else where for a thrill.
HE DIDN'T MEAN TO.
Most cheating men feel guilty during the affair, most unfaithful men will say they never dream they would ever cheat on their wife, this is not comforting, but it shows how c careful couples need to be to prevent accidental affairs from sneaking in.
IT'S NOT ABOUT HOW YOU LOOK.
Please don't ever compare yourself and never look down on how beautiful you are, your husband didn't cheat on because he wanted some one more attractive. There is no amount of make up or make over that you do that will make a cheater less likely to cheat.
HIS BEST FRIEND HAD AN AFFAIR.
Seventy percent of cheating men had a good friend who had an affair first. If a friend your husband respects and loves can justify an affair then your husband might start to view affairs less damaging.
Whatever the reason for the affair the most important thing I want you to remember is that you are worth loving, don't allow your husbands mistake make you feel worthless.
Help, healing and God by your side it's what you need if you find yourself in this type of situation.
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